Be honest
BFFs, what would we do without them? From childhood gal pals to girlfriends who stand the test of time. Here’s our list of female friend dos and don’ts.
Do be honest, she's counting on it. When your BFF asks you, “What do you think of this swimsuit?" Don’t sugar coat it, say, "It looks like bad lingerie. Return it."
Grow together
Don't get stuck in seventh-grade friendships. People change as they get older and the beauty of a strong friendship is that it changes along with you.
Take her side
Do always be on your girlfriend’s side, no matter what. If that side changes, change with it.
Don’t date your BFF’s ex—it’s bad form and will always result in you being a bad friend.
Celebrate
Do celebrate her accomplishments. Be a good friend and let your BFF know that you’re proud of her.
Post with care
Don’t post awkward or ugly photos of your BFF on Facebook (even if you think you look amazing). Be a good friend. Delete it or save it for some private laughs.
Cheer her on
Do be her cheerleader, particularly when she’s having a hard time being her own.
Share
o share and share alike. One of the best parts of good female friends is the ability and affinity to swap clothes, accessories, shoes and overall style. Take advantage. It’s like having a whole other closet to pull from.
Avoid the middle
Don’t overly criticize her boyfriend and point out all the ways she’s changed now that she’s in a relationship. Be there for her. If it’s not the right match, she’ll probably (hopefully) come to that conclusion on her own.
Keep her secrets
Don’t share your BFF’s secrets. She told them to you and, as a good friend, your job is to keep them locked up.
Have fun
Give good fashion
Don’t let your BFF wear something horrific because you think it makes you look better. Yes, it does make you a bad friend.
Listen to her
Do listen. Whether it’s a nasty break-up, a major life decision or just venting about the day, listen and support her.
Keep your promises
Don’t break promises. A good friend is dependable, so demonstrate your dependability and make good on your word.
Katherine West Slevin is a consultant and freelance writer. She lives in Washington, DC, with her husband and daughter where she tries her best to stay sane in the face of motherhood.
Do have fun together. Get silly and create some memories.
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